Often times when we are getting ready for an out of state move, we think about everything. We look at the cost of the move, we make sure the movers are hired, we set the closing date on the home, we hire the right agent to help us find a new home, etc. One of the big things we don't consider is how the kids are holding up. They are losing a huge piece of security. Many times, this is the only bedroom they have had, the only kitchen they have had meals in and the only yard they have played in. Let's not forget the only neighborhood they know kids in! Here are 6 reminders on how to make sure the kiddos are ok in the process.
1. Involve the kids in the process. If you are searching online at Realtor.com or another search site, allow your kids to be involved in the search. Show them the homes in the area. Many of these listings have photographs of the inside of the home. Let the kids see their potential rooms.
2. Tell the kids why you are moving. For example; "Mommy/Daddy's boss thinks mommy/daddy is doing such a good job that they are giving mommy/daddy a better job."
3. Have you agent send you information about the new community. Your agent should be able to send you info on the schools, sports, area entertainment and activities as well as other neighborhood amenities such as a neighborhood pool, playground, etc. If your children are in to sports, let them know that they can play the same sports in the new town.
4. Show your child a picture of their new room. Let them help you in determining what color to paint it or where the bed might go or the dresser and toybox. This will give the child some ownership in the move and show them that they are included in this decision.
5. Take a family trip to the new to city before you move. This will allow your children to experience the new city and have something to look forward to. Take them to the local Zoo or theme park.
6. While preparing for the move, try to keep life at home as normal as possible. Keep dinner time the same, keep bed time the same, etc.
I hope these six tips will help you in your next big move. If you have any questions or would like more information on Nashville, please do not hesitate to ask me!
Steve Blair
Affiliate Broker / REALTOR
SilverPointe Properties
7105 Crossroads Blvd. Ste 102
Brentwood, TN 37027
Office: 615-377-6330
Cell: 615-479-1639
Email: steve@steveblair.net
Website: www.steveblair.net
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